Here you have it: the top excuses I’ve heard for people not wanting to travel and what I have to say about them all.
It costs too much
Not as much as everyone thinks. I am nowhere close to feeling financially content and somehow I have had an absolutely amazing trip at least once a year for the past 5 years in a row. When you are as in love and addicted with travel as I am, you make it happen. I slept in a tent for 5 weeks across Western Europe to make it happen. It’s life . . . on the road. You can be as frugal or extravagant as you want. You can even travel to more economical parts of the world like Africa, South America, or Southeast Asia.
I have had numerous people exclaim to me, “How do you have all this money to do all of this traveling?!” Well, I have you fooled. Because I am in no way a money bag. Some people’s money goes towards a house, a wedding, or a child. I have had none of the above. I made my prerogative years ago that I would spend my 20’s having fun, being spontaneous, and always delving in adventure by traveling often. I do not want to be rooted to one place. I don’t like spending money on objects, I would rather spend it on experiences and seeing the world. So when I do spend money on items, I make a big investment emotionally and financially to purchase and acquire them. Guess where my very small wedding ceremony will be? An exotic destination. It would be killing two birds with one stone!
I may get mugged, raped, killed, or taken hostage
It’s possible. Although, the likelihood that it will happen in a foreign country is about as likely as it could happen in your own town. After traveling to over 20 countries, I can safely tell you that I am more fearful of violence (and pointless violence) in North America than anywhere else. I was chatting with a friend from Japan I met on my recent travels when the Colorado Batman shooting happened and she said to me, “I don’t understand – why does this happen in America? Things like that don’t happen here.” And she’s right – crazy violence is seen more in America. And I wish I could blame it all on the States and their gun laws, but sadly Canada has seen some horrendous violence over the recent years as well. Every country has violence – but to think that America is the safest place is illogical.
People say this because they actually think that there is a right way and a wrong way to live life: people should settle down and have a family, invest in a home, and do what everyone else is doing. Let me ask you this, if you want to finish life and be able to say: “Hey, I lived a responsible life! Man, that was great!” then, well, great. Personally, this just makes remember that there’s more to life than just being responsible.
You are running away from something
Sometimes you do need to distance yourself from your past or your routine in order to clear your head or work through a tough situation. Pondering a recent life change while hiking the Inca Trail or questioning your life decisions on a rocky bus in Greece while puking in your hat can actually be the best thing for you. (True stories of mine).
You can’t afford to take a risk right now
Well, there’s never really a good time to take a risk as a risk is the process of taking a chance with no guaranteed outcome. If life were guaranteed – it would be boring. If you’d rather wait until there’s a good time to take a risk . . . then get used to being stuck right where you are today. No risk, no reward.
I have no one to travel with
So what? I have traveled to 22 countries by myself. I was only alone when I wanted to be – there are so many opportunities to make friends on the road. I have met so many cool people from all over the world, and I know I would have never met them if I had someone from home traveling with me. In my opinion, if you have to get your strength and confidence to travel from someone else – then good luck in life.
It’s not a good time to leave in this economy
There will always be unemployment; there will always be debt. Escaping a bad economy and lying low in a country with a cheap cost of living could actually be a life saver. It’s much easier to be unemployed in Vietnam than it is in New York City as the cost of simply living is vastly different.
And what if you are looking for a job – have you ever thought of making the most of it and hitting the road? That’s what I did when I was unexpectedly out of work. I traveled to South America and came back to find a job 100 times better than the one I left.
For everyone, a seemingly bad situation can end up being a blessing in disguise.
Remember that sometimes not getting what you want is a wonderful stroke of luck
– Dalai Lama
oh wow…travel is the only thing i swear by and it is my biggest learning…travel doesnt mean being rich necessarily but it just means making it one’s priority….very well written :)
Hey there moodsnmoments! Thanks for your comment – my thoughts exactly :) I’m glad you liked it!
Everyone should read this post – spot on!
I believe if one truly wants to do something, they will find a way! We vacation about 4 times a year. WITH our children! Sure it may cost a bit more, but if you really want it, you just have to eat chicken instead of steak a few times … don’t shop for things you don’t need and clothes that will just hang in your closet! Turn off cable and use Netflix for $9 a month! There is so much to see in this world, I want to see it!! Good for you!
well said and true. Come to think of it.. we have so much in common when it comes to travel excuses.
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Travel is such an awesome experience! As well, I wish that more people had a traveller’s mindset when they’re at home! There are so many awesome places and adventures in this world!!!
There sure is. Thanks for visiting!
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Thank you very much!
Hey Alli! So true that your priorities are what you make them, and to people like us, traveling is tops. I get sooooo tired of people saying they don’t have the money, time, etc… then I watch them go out to eat 3-4 plus times a week and spend money on all sorts of things, then I think- of course you don’t have money to travel! Because you haven’t prioritized it over other things in your life! (and I don’t mean necessities). I also am a true believer in being able to travel with kids/family. My parents raised us traveling all over the world. They weren’t shy about taking babies anywhere they went (France for the summer… Caribbean for a few weeks on our boat.. Roatan Honduras on a scientific and dive expedition name it!) I know kids can (and will) slow us down, but I have every intention on bringing them along with me when I can so that they can receive the best education out there: experiencing the world!
Hey Lindsay! Absolutely. Priorities are truly what you make them and are unique to every single person! Like you, I am annoyed how some people easily write off travel like it is an irresponsible hobby at my age or a waste of money. Traveling with children is something I have yet to envision myself doing one day. But again, simply having children is something I am on the fence about at this time. I completely admire how some parents expose their children to travel and learning about the world and its different cultures.
So true! People ask me how I travel “all the time”.
You make time, you make money, you make it HAPPEN, for whatever you really want.
What I really want is to travel! :)
Yep – it’s really quite simple! When you love travel and adventure so much, it becomes an absolute priority – no matter what anyone else thinks.
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So true. I’m a 21 year old student and so far have travelled to 4 countries by myself with no troubles (apart from losing my backpack once ha). In the process I’ve met people who have become amazing friends from all over the world, and learned so much more about values and people than I could in a classroom. While uni peers have spent their summers doing internships, I’ve gone travelling. Some might call that lazy and unwise, but I think it’s such a more valuable experience. And I really take your point about the USA. People need to stop letting the news dominate their lives and end these irrational, almost bigoted ideas that the least developed countries are the most unsafe. I think parents are largely responsible for influencing such views – I’m pretty sure that my love of travel has come from being lucky to travel lots with my family as a child, with ma and pa’s encouraging views becoming instilled in me.
Very great examples you’ve pointed out! I couldn’t agree with them more. Good for you! Thanks very much for your comment.
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